My name is Nathan Segal, and I am a bullying survivor. What you’ll read on this site is based on my experiences and does not constitute legal advice. If there is any doubt about the veracity of the information contained here, the services of a competent professional should be sought.
Bullying has captured the media spotlight as of late, and there have been multiple stories, not only of the bullying itself but of the deaths of people, young and old who committed suicide because they believed that it was the only way to stop the bullying.
I too have been bullied, many times throughout my life. My late father was a bully, and so is my younger brother. The bullying created tremendous emotional pain. For years, I was in counseling for post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and the cause was bullying and harassment, mostly at the hands of my immediate family.
If someone is bullying you, you don’t need anyone to tell you how difficult it is to cope with, how much it hurts emotionally, nor how many people won’t believe you. And to make matters worse, some of your “friends” might side with the bully and abandon you.
Here are some of the main topics that I’ll cover on this site:
•Bullying and Crazy Making Behavior
•10 Facts About the Bully Mindset
•Long-term Effects of Bullying
•Three Actionable Strategies to End Adult Bullying
•How to Deal with Bullying on Forums
•Why It’s Important to Expose Bullies
•How Bullies Target Their Victims
•5 Ways to Protect Yourself Online
•Protecting Your Internet Privacy
•How Boundary Violations Can Cause Suffering
•The Challenge of Enforcing Boundaries
•The Importance of Defining Your Personal Space
•How to Set Boundaries with Family Bullies
•When it’s Time to Sever the Ties
•3 Steps to Effective Workplace Boundaries
•Relationship Breakups: How to Get Over Anyone in a Few Days
•The Myth of the Sacred Family Bond
•5 Facts About Abusive Relationships
•How Automatic Thoughts Can Cause Suffering
•How to Recover from the Effects of Bullying Faster Than You Ever Dreamed Possible with TimeLine Therapy
The post on TimeLine therapy is of crucial importance. Before that session, I thought I would suffer from the effects of bullying for the rest of my life. The TimeLine Therapy released the bulk of the trauma from my life.
When working back and forth with my coach, I discovered an important fact. The incidences of bullying, while painful, were not the problem. The problem was the ongoing story in my head, the never-ending war against the bullies, which is what was causing me the most pain.
On my site, you will learn how to end the inner war. The inner war, once ended, will free you to live your life in a completely different way.
This site is create with the understanding that the publisher has made every effort possible to make sure that the information contained herein is truthful and accurate. When necessary, information has been changed or updated, in order to keep the book as current as possible.
The author is not a lawyer and what is presented in this site is not legal advice. The reader is advised to consult with an appropriately qualified professional before making any life changes. Due to the rapidly changing state of technology, the publisher/copyright holder does not accept any responsibility for any liabilities resulting from the decisions made by the users of this site.
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